Love is the union of a lover, a beloved, and of their mutual love. When we, following scripture, assert "God is love," we confess that God is a plurality in unity; God is love.
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It is Augustine who observes that God is love (in chapter eight of his wittily titled The Trinity). He doesn't do it as a philosopher, but as a pastor. Even while he is outlining how the Father loves the Son, and the Son loves the father, and the intensity of their love is the Spirit of love itself, he reminds that love draws us out. Love requires us and compels us and irresistably changes us. Love is loving; it acts. Loving makes us lovers, bone of its bone, every more able to see and be what loving requires. Our flaming hearts accept nothing less. And in the center of its unity we strain to glimpse the form itself-–the lover, what is being loved, and love–-and that is God.
The gaze catches so completely that I can only stammer some mystical poetry: a few lines from San Juan de la Cruz's love poem La noche oscura del alma ("Dark Night of the Soul") and from Mechthild of Magdeburg's Das fließende Licht der Gottheit (The Flowing Light of the Godhead):
"In a dark night,
With anxious love inflamed
Forth unobserved I went,
In darkness and in safety,
By the secret ladder, disguised,
Without other light or guide
Save that which in my heart was burning.
That light guided me
More surely than the noonday sun
To the place where He was waiting for me,
Whom I knew well,
O, guiding night;
O, night more lovely than the dawn;
O, night that hast united
The lover with His beloved,
And changed her into her love."
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"I cannot dance, O Lord,
Unless You lead me.
If You wish me to leap joyfully,
Let me see You dance and sing—-
Then I will leap into Love—-
And from Love into Knowledge,
And from Knowledge into the Harvest,
The sweetest Fruit beyond human sense.
There I will stay with You, whirling."
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Anyway, then--looking out from contemplation--there's something else that this sight of God as love does to us. That God is love itself sets the tone for what Christians mean when they talk about our deepest ideas of unity and community. The Brazilian theologian Leonardo Boff called the Trinity the communion of life and love. “Solitude is hell,” he said. “No one is an island. We are surrounded by persons, things, and beings on all sides.” The loving community of the Trinity calls us “to maintain relationships of communion with all, giving and receiving.”
Only persons can be in communion. It means that one is in the presence of the other, different from the other but open in a radical mutuality. For there to be true communion there must be direct and immediate relationships: eye to eye, face to face, heart to heart. The result of mutual surrender and reciprocal communion is community. Community results from personal relationships in which each is accepted as he or she is, each opens to the other and gives the best of himself or herself.
We will pick up this theme again.